Happy Thursday peeps! I know it’s been a few weeks since you’ve heard from me. Having 5 kids means the month of May is extremely busy for me. From wrapping up the end of the school year to birthdays and a demanding 9 to 5, your girl has been busy.
Nonetheless, I have a word that I would like to share. With me wearing so many hats and having so many responsibilities, it is easy to be overwhelmed and feel helpless. Sometimes, I think that life would be much easier if my dreams weren’t so big, but then I think, “what fun would that be?”
The easy thing to do is to quit, give up, tap out, and walk away. That’s also how you stay stuck and settle for where you are right now.
Are you a conqueror (winner) or conquistador (loser)? Do you give up at the first sign of “hard”? Do you allow your challenges to get you down and make you feel defeated?
If you’ve answered yes to any of those questions, it’ time for an attitude adjustment. It’s time for you to train your mind to think on a different level. Train yourself to replace every negative thought with a positive punch. Your success depends on it. Your goals and dreams will not work unless you do and it’s going to take a fight, it won’t be easy.
Whenever I think about giving up, taking the easy way out and settling for “normal”, I remind myself why I do this; it’s because I get to help others accomplish their goals and live their dreams. I get to show my children what going after what you want looks like even when times get tough, you don’t give in you stand in and fight for what you want.
if you’ve been feeling down, depressed, overwhelmed, helpless, hopeless, or just down right TIRED, that’s when you dust your shoulders off, face your challenges head on and refuse to give in. Don’t throw in the towel, use it to wipe your sweat off and keep fighting. Finances in shambles? FIGHT! Career not going the way you want? FIGHT! Relationship issues got you down? FIGHT! Fight for your victory, fight your way to finish line. NO MATTER WHAT, YOU ARE A CONQUEROR!
I just wanted to drop in and share this because I too struggle on a daily to fight but my will to conquer my dreams is bigger than my will to give in. I’m fighting and I will stand with you as you fight. WE GOT THIS! You can get that degree you’re working on. You will get that awesome job that you’re not qualified for. That career change you want to make will happen. Your financial situation will improve. You gotta be willing to put in the work and fight for what you want.
I pray that this blesses you and gives you the motivation you need to level up and show yourself what being a conqueror looks and feels like.
P.S. Do you have a dream but no plan? Need help getting clear about your vision and the steps you need to take? Let’s chat!
P.S.S. Before you go, you should check out the May issue of Model Mom Magazine. This issue was very special to me because it features my FIRST two articles as a contributing editor. Thank you in advance for checking it out and don’t forget to send me any questions you may have for “Ask A Life Coach”. Check out a preview below:
If you haven’t had a chance to check it out, you can access it HERE
I would love to hear your feedback!
Here is a little something that describes what living life with a dream and a plan looks like. You are a conqueror and you won’t accept defeat! Enjoy!