Remember when P. Diddy came up with the saying “no b&**h ass-ness” to deter anyone who was not on some “get money” type attitude from coming his way? Well that’s how I’m feeling right now about some of the lazy ass attitudes but still feel entitled to success, type of people.
How do you expect to the be successful in life in general with a lazy ass attitude? I think we often forget the saying, “you get back what you put out.” The reason we don’t want to think about that is because it calls for us to reflect on ourselves and look at what we’re doing or not doing to cause us to get the results we don’t want.
You want #relationshipgoals but you don’t have relationship work ethic. You want your girl to treat you like a King, cater to you and make you feel like the man, but you won’t keep gas in her car, keep the trash taken out, or pay bills. You know, man ish. You want your man to upgrade you, make you feel like a queen, be your Jay Z but yet you still have a low budget attitude, won’t clean, and don’t know how to cook. Remember, you get back what you put in. If you want a man or woman of substance, that’s going to add to your life and not drain you of your energy, you have to be that in return.
There is no way in hell a real man or real woman is going to keep putting up with mediocrity when it comes to their relationship when they have something to bring to the table. You want to be treated like you are the world but you make them feel like they’re just one of their options. The game don’t work like that…not for long anyway. You might get by on your cuteness for a short period of time but when you’re a whole grown adult, that quickly wears off.
We have to stop these lazy ass entitled attitudes that so many of us have grown to accept. If you want a real, healthy, happy ,relationship, you’re going to have to work for it. Not just with your significant other but on yourself as well. None of us are perfect, we should all be constantly seeking growth and evolution from within. The only way to elevate is to outgrow your current level. Sometimes that means you outgrow people that you thought would be your forever. This especially happens when you get into relationships at a really young age and you start to grow and develop into totally different adults.
So stop being lazy when it comes to the things you want, be it, a happy, healthy relationship, a great career, or to start/grow your business. In order to get and experience things a the highest level you have to be willing to put in the work and elevate yourself to the highest level.
So go be great, work hard, and truly be the person who attracts positive things into your life. A great read to help with this is “The Wait” by Megan Good and Devon Franklin. In the book they discuss how getting caught up in the wrong relationship’s and focusing on the wrong things can prolong you getting to the one. Do your due diligence and be the person you would want to date, love, and marry.
P.S. Stop with this #relationshipgoals mess too. People out here wishing for something they don’t even know what they wishing for. Don’t know what it took for those people to put on those smiles or to get to the point of where they re now. Make your own relationship goals.
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Life Stratgeist KG♥
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